11 November 2016

Today's men and boys shouldn't have to lug around all of the social baggage that tells them they should stuff their feelings and bury them.

Manal Aboelata-Henry: I want my sons to live long, happy lives
Real Stories
2 MIN READ
I’m a mother of two sons, age 10 and 12. Today’s men and boys can be strong, smart, creative and compassionate. They shouldn't have to lug around all of the social baggage that tells them they should stuff their feelings and bury them, but it’s not easy to unpack. There are so many influences at school, at work and in the media that reinforce narrow images of maleness without building out the narrative that healthy boys and healthy men need connections and support systems all the time, not just when they are sick or injured. Without human connections, health suffers. 

I became a Mo Sista after my husband got connected to the Movember Foundation and I saw the impact of what he was doing to promote men’s mental health and well-being. He started bringing boys and men together to talk about the impact of gangs and gang culture in their lives. The stories. The tears. The memories. The compassion. The commitment. I was so moved. I wanted to be a supporter. I loved the way that men and boys shared their stories so willingly and so generously once a space was created to support that. My husband has a special gift for connecting with others and it’s wonderful to see how powerful the act of sharing openly can be. But, what I really love about what he’s doing is that he’s using his experiences as a Mo Bro to identify what schools, artists, musicians, community groups, police and workplaces can do differently to support boys and men wherever they are in their communities. 

I want the boys and men in my life to be healthy. I want them to be surrounded by other boys and men who care about their health, provide a real support system, and allow each other to be vulnerable and compassionate and creative in their dignity as men and as humans. I can share what I’ve learned as a woman. I can stand up for Mo Bros and I can just be a Mo Sista when that’s helpful, too.

Manal Aboelata-Henry, Mo Sista since 2015
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